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  • Bianca Ruiz

I'm bringing sexy back

Want to to look in the mirror and love who is looking back at you? Feel sublime in your own skin and rewire your brain to see what truly matters.



Hey guys, this is my second post and I have decided to open the conversation and share my thoughts on how we feel in our body. Wether is you are super self-confident or going through the struggles of self-acceptance it is good to remind ourselves of what sexiness is.


“When a human is able to genuinely #embody their #self-#worth and #confidence, you can #sense the #heat of their #inner #fire #burning.”

For the longest time in my #life, I had a #hard #time #accepting my #body and #myself. I made a lot of #progress along the #way, but even #nowadays there are still times I become #sensitive and #uneasy about my #shape, feeling #comfortable in my #personal frame has been a continuous #work.

If you haven't felt any #trouble during your #teenage years about your #skin, body #changes or ever wondered if you are in #fit enough or #pretty #enough, you are one of the lucky ones. Growing up is hard; #accepting your own #physique while going through the #process of finding who you are is #challenging.

I was working on a #career where I felt constantly #judged by my looks during my #teens, and I use to be very #unconfident. I use to constantly #compare myself #believing that #everyone else was #better, #skinnier, #stronger and #cooler than #me.

Let’s be #real, my #background wasn’t more #complex than other #youngsters. Each one of us may #recall at least one #episode where we #misjudged our #potential and #skills and instead we brought ourselves #down. It’s a like a #battle in our #head; we #fear other people's #opinions or not being #accepted, as if we feel the #need to #prove ourselves. We #presume we are being criticized and #labeled.

There were times that I would look in the #mirror and #judge myself so harshly that I was only #capable to see what I thought was wrong with me. It came to a point that I would tell myself #horrible things that I wouldn't, in my #deepest #anger, say to anyone else.

Those #feelings weren't ok, I was the one putting #obstacles in my own way and holding myself #back. It was #time to #break #free of those #wrong #impressions, so I became more #conscious and started to look people around me, paying #attention to what made each of them #beautiful and what made them #sparkle. I was able to #redefine and find the true meaning of #pretty and #sexy that once pre-set in my #brain. I am here to #share with you what I've found out.

#Sexiness is when the #magic within a person that #overflows through their #skin, you can #feel it in their #energy, you can #smell it, your #body #desires to #look whoever is #manifesting it and your #soul can’t help but wish to be around that #energy.

Not everyone is fully able to process the meaning of sexiness, I surely didn't use to. It’s not is the #shallowness of one’s body shape, it’s what flows through it and make their skin #glow with it.

When a human is able to genuinely #embody their #self-#worth and #confidence, you can #sense the #heat of their #inner #fire #burning.

This #animal #magnetism is in one’s self-#confidence, in their own #special #gifts and #talents, such as #intelligence, #humor, #dance. #Attraction is a #brain #teaser, you feel it when someone is #celebrating their self-#expression.

#Seductiveness is in the #eye to eye, long #conversations, #romantic #gestures when you and the other person feel #seen and #valued.

Every person has their own #talent and #flair, so find and #embrace yours. Let #flow #smoothly and #gracefully.

Being genuine is sexy, #blush like you mean it!

I would #love to hear from you if you ever gone through these #struggles and if you have been able to #free yourself from it. What is sexiness for you?




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